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![Finish this sentence: To be Assertive, I think I should….
❓ think I'm better than anyone else...
❓ be a douchebag or first-class jerk...
❓ be loud, opinionated and be the boss...
❓ have my life perfectly under control.
Did any of the above statements come to mind?
If you answered, “YEEAH!😞” I want you to know that that a *huge* percentage of Lightworkers think the same and believe that because they DON’T like to be like those things above is blocking them from being confident enough to stand up for themselves and what they believe in.
News flash: IT’S NOT!
Those concerns are created due to bad experiences with people who confuse being a self-righteous, aggressive, loud, bullying jerk with being Self-Confident and Strong-Willed.
You see, being a self-righteous, aggressive, loud, bullying jerk, and douchebag is really an attempt to cover a very fragile Ego and severe low self-esteem! The way I look at it, the bigger a jerk, the lower self-esteem!
Being Self-Confident and Strong-Willed are done in peace and with respect for oneself and others.
Have you heard someone say, "Then, Let's agree to disagree?!" 👈🏻 That is an assertive statement.
Assertiveness is about resting in your own truth and beliefs, and you're willing to stand up for yourself and what you believe in. You have your own opinions, and you don't let anyone be the boss over you! BUT You ALWAYS do it with peace and respect for diversity.
Here are some assertive sentences I'm using in my life;
💪🏻"This is my truth, and you're free to have yours!"
💪🏻"You are welcome to do it, as long I don't have to!"
💪🏻"If that's what you want, then go for it - I'm just not going to do it!"
💪🏻"If I'm not passionate or burning for something, it's simply not gonna happen!"
💪🏻"If you want to spend time with [name], then go - I just don't want to be any near close to [name]!"
💪🏻"That's not gonna happen!"
💪🏻"If you can't respect my boundaries and my will, then it's best that we don't associate!"
💪🏻"If it's not a HECK YEAH! - then it's a no!"
What are some of your assertive sentences?](https://scontent-cph2-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.2885-15/280574216_367920715304945_4504408447266058547_n.jpg?_nc_cat=101&ccb=1-6&_nc_sid=8ae9d6&_nc_ohc=kWfZu2REgT4AX_JDICZ&_nc_ht=scontent-cph2-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&oh=00_AT8qU6Xybm8M5j8TfteVv4pkocyp8Yt-_9vii8CitoXy6Q&oe=62872EB2)